1. Make sure you don't act like they're weird, or do anything to embarrass them. Just answer them casually.
2. Be polite. If a guy you like, for instance, says something really gross to you, don't be like, "Um, OK, then." Don't act like he's crazy - two things can happen - either he won't like you because he'll think you're no fun, or he will be embarrassed.
3. Stall for time, if the question is so strange you don't know how to respond. Tell him, "I will have to think about that." Then, prepare an answer, or if you just can't come up with an answer, don't mention it again, and it may never come up again.
4. Ask why he would want to know, if this reply will suit the question and the circumstances. This may even give you a clue what answer he may be expecting, and help you understand why he would ask.
5. Tell him he will have to wait until you get to know him better to answer the question, since he is your "CRUSH", and this may be what you would hope would happen anyway.
Tips
• Always smile, and if you find what he or she said even the slightest bit funny, laugh a bit.
• Try not to overreact or make a scene. Passersby or people who think they overheard something can blow things out of proportion if they notice your reaction.
Warnings
• If the question is "strange" insofar as it is too intimate, embarrassing, or it makes you uncomfortable, it is important to consider why you are interested in this person, instead of jumping through hoops to overlook his behavior and try to avoid making him feel awkward.
• Asking someone who is CRUSHing on you a weird question is a way of testing them to see what they will put up with. Your CRUSH may want to play with your emotions or hurt you when he does this.
• Don't compromise yourself to impress a CRUSH. If he acts in a way that is weird or perverted, don't tolerate it just because you think he's cute or cool or popular.
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